This is our first holiday season in the Nashville area, any suggestions on family activities/light displays we should check out? Our kids our 8, 5, and 3.

For young professional women out there - how many of you think you might not want to have kids in the future? Generally curious, yes I’m youngish,male (25) but I never envisioned having kids. I come from a more conservative area where everyone does have/want kids. So interested in seeing what a percentage breakdown would look like especially within consulting - thanks!

If buy the partners you work with regularly a holiday gift, how much do you spend? Usually I get baked goods or food items which you can’t tell the actual amount spent on. This year, though, I’d like to support local restaurants by encouraging people to order takeout—hence, giving gift cards.

How much is appropriate for a restaurant gift card from an associate to a partner?

Lawyer Couples:
I’m currently an associate (no kids) in a very busy corp group (think 50-60 billable weekly). My wife works significantly less (currently part time, 10-15, but hopefully will be full time soon). I find myself getting upset when asked to help with basic household things (trash, cooking etc.) when she’s been lounging around watching Netflix all day. Am I being reasonable or am I a misogynist? How do you deal with one person having significantly more free time than the other?

How do you know if you have good hygiene? my ex told me I don’t

This is my routine:
- I have curly hair, can only wash it once a week/put dry shampoo if needed
- I brush my teeth 2 times a day
- Wear deodorant / perfume every day (my way, and good girl) and shave off any hair (I did laser but still), as much as possible. Some days, I cannot keep up with shaving (especially if it won’t show)
- I wear pantyliners and change it once a day/ change panties once a day
- I shower my body every day

Does anyone have any tips for switching to family style eating for 3 thru 5 year olds? Anything that you've seen that works great rules or routine wise?

I don't have any friends in banglore. It is hard for me to find friends cause i am always that aloof kid who in addition is not straight so can't even bond with my teammates. How do people live like this. Even my flatmates don't talk . : (

About to finish my first year. I’m a specialist. Only going to hit 65% of my hours (took a 4 week vacation cause of wedding/hm).

I never say no to work and i have fantastic reviews, and the head of my practice (with whom I work a lot for) has great things to say about me.

I’ve been fully utilized starting ~June, but first few months were slow. Am i fine?!

Asking for a friend - anyone staying in a marriage just for the kid(s)?

It's not like the marriage is terrible or unhealthy, but they would take an out if not for having had the kids.

Anyone else experience this? I'm wondering how common this is.

I recently had an initial interview for a technical recruiter position. The guy on the phone stated that this is not a 9-5 job and long hours are expected. I proceed to ask how much PTO is offered and he said that is not recommend within the first 6 months of working and the harder you work the more PTO you receive. From that conversation, I saw instant red flags. Any thoughts?

Comforting others:
When someone tells me bad news regarding their health, I say everything I am supposed to say (I’m sorry to hear that, I’m here for you, etc) EXCEPT “everything is going to be ok”. Because I can’t guarantee that and I really don’t know if everything is going to be ok. I was taken aback recently when a friend told me I am calloused and cold-hearted for not being able to say those words. Is she right? Should I start saying this for the purposes of providing comfort only??

Should I take this role?
Pros: 50k bump, company is full remote, no time tracking software, unlimited PTO, 10k in quarterly bonuses, vertical move in responsibility and title, will set me up for future roles in different companies with the title I am looking for (so strategic move)

Cons: Its a startup, the solution they offer is adjacent to my desired industry, its a very small team so I wouldn’t grow my network as much, tech stipend for new laptop (but they don’t provide a work one)

Is Argyle, TX good place to buy home and raise family?

Any dads out here? Wife is 20 weeks pregnant with our first and want to connect and know from fellow dads on how are they coping. How are you helping your partner? Feel I am not doing enough. Except for getting ready with the finances.

Pregnant moms, feel free to provide suggestions on what your partner is doing which you really appreciate. I got the foot massage part covered. 😉

I'm a US citizen living abroad I applied almost 11 months ago for my spouse. Married for years, kid. I wait and wait. It seems this will take 2 years, maybe more. I feel trapped. On one side the US system demands I work and domicile in US, the other side says families should be prioritized to stay together. My spouse has had enough of the process. I feel trapped abroad and locked in a dysfunctional system. We're just in limbo, it's depressing

Help!! My bestfriend is doing two months abroad and was trying to fly into turkey when they told her she couldn't because her passport expired within three months.

She went to the US Embassay in Athens knowing she had a month left of traveling, and gave her an emergency passport and punched holes in her exsisting one. Now no country will let her in with her emergency passport.

Can her mom get her a passport in the US and ship it to her? Is there anyway around this?

Thank you!!

Went to a funeral today, wife’s oldest friend 42 non smoker, non drinker, did yoga and was a vegetarian and probably the nicest person I have met… went back to the house husband wanted a drink opened a top shelf bottle cause why not? Sometimes the stuff we discuss here is so trivial but what I remembered today is open the good stuff, enjoy it with people you love and tell them you love them. Tomorrow is not guaranteed

WFH parents - what’s your routine and how old are your kids? Struggling to find one for me.

Real talk ... if someone is over 35 and hasn’t been married before, do you automatically assume there is something wrong with them?

How does one tell their boss (owner of the company) that you are burnt out? The sheer volume of work is exhausting and I haven’t taken a true vacation as we are a small company so if something urgent comes to my email I feel like I must respond. I was given an additional title and more responsibilities last year as well but only a 3% raise for it.

Any one staying in kumar park infinia, Fursungi and working in Barclays Kharadi?
Need quick information on travelling !! Please help

Hello Barclays folks,
Good evening!!
I will be joining on 14th nov. I heard that if the bank account details are not updated before the 15th salary will not get credited for that month and I need to wait for next month for full payment.please let me know where to update and what's the lastdate

Hi all,i have been taking interviews for my department since the last 3 months.Should the company be paying me for the extra efforts?

Hi Sharks,

I am a product owner and want to learn all aspects of product management and to transition as a product manager in leading Tech firms. I had completed my engineering and mba but never worked as a software engineer. I started my career in sales and am now working as a PO. So I lack technical knowledge as well. Can some experienced product manager guide me and PPL like me here on this fish bowl a step by step plan to achieve this goal. What courses we can join, what books to read

I have just got an options trader job at a prop trading firm. But I knew nothing about options/trading/finance. The firms said they’ll be officially training us once we start. But in the meantime, what are some books/resources that you would recommend to start learning first?

Is 120k+super a good salary for software tester (manual) with 7 years of experience in Melbourne?

Any advice for Fla business that may have to let go of staff? 20-25 emp; furniture mftg. Don't practice employment and they can't afford lawyer that does. They want to comply with laws.

Does anyone have a playbook for onboarding new clients that you can share? Looking for a good template to guide the process.

Agencies seem to have overcome Level 5 restrictions for this year’s Christmas campaigns. Best year in a while. Impressive, given the circumstances.

How long recruiter takes to comeback after GCA round?

Hi everyone. I am thinking of making a move to the UK and looking for opportunities in audit firms. I have almost 3 years of experience as an audit semi senior and currently an ACCA Affiliate (will become a member in 5 months). Would appreciate any help or guidance.

Anyone have advice for a first year about to start? Things you wish you did, things you wish you didn’t do?

Anyone at EY or Deloitte? Trying to apply for FDD position.

EY: What's the difference between
SaT - Transaction Support - M&A and
SaT - Transaction Diligence????
JD seems to be almost identical.

Deloitte: What's the FDD equivalent position in Deloitte? I only found manager position so I was not sure about it.

Got an offer from EY FSO ITS. Heard it would be tough, anyone works in that group can give any advice ? Thanks!

How is the WLB and travel requirements in EY-Parthenon India(Senior Associate in Strategy and Transactions)?

Deloitte India or Publicis Sapient, which one should I choose. I have an offer with DI as senior consultant in consulting. Should I join DI or Publicis Sapient. Salary same

Just found there are city bowls. Moved to Nashville recently and looking to network / make friends. (27 M). DM if down to grab coffee / drink / cigar!

Looking for a job in sales on the more “farming” side of things. I would love a remote job for the flexibility as my fiancé is in NP school and it would open a lot more doors if we had the opportunity to move around. Open for ideas. Looking for somewhere 90-105k OTE

In town for a few days, anyone know the “code” to get into the Red Phone Booth speakeasy?

Question, which do you prefer Sweet Potato Pie or Chocolate Pecan Pie?

Anyone watching UFC 281? Any good fight bars in Nashville?

Hey - anyone at Deloitte Nashville who would be willing to refer my application?

Hi All,

Happy Holidays!

Does anyone know if Boeing has an office in Nashville?

Google maps showing nothing.

Thanks

Do you think crime in Nashville is worse than in other cities? I don't frankly, not sure where all the "this town is going to pot" people are getting their information. I love living here and have never had any problems.

Do you fly out to family for the holidays or do they come to you? We're hosting Christmas for the first time and having the entire family come to town for it. What are some can't miss holiday events in the city? Ideally accessible because my father is in a wheelchair.

If anyone wants me to send their resume to a hiring manager at AB, I’ll be happy to refer you.

What's the best month to visit Nashville? I want to bring my girlfriend to Nashville to propose but I don't know anything about the weather. She grew up in Nashville but hasn't been back for 4+ years. I'd like to book the tickets in advance, so let me know your thoughts please & thank you.

I'm looking to pick up a few last minute presents for family this week. Ideally from local businesses. Anywhere y'all would recommend? I've only been here 3 months. I live in Whitebridge.

Moving to Nashville in December and just want to take a pulse. What are the best spots to get a feel for the city? Any favorite places I should check out? Thanks!

BCG is opening an office here. Who else is next? 👀

Did you grow up in Nashville or move here for work? Just wondering how many in this bowl are native Nashvillians or transplants like me.