How do you deal with toxic masculinity? 🧐

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When you realize that many men are insecure, hurt, lonely, confuse male bonding for misogyny, and are emotionally immature. Everybody hurts and wants to feel like they belong. Even in GREAT company cultures I have run into this.

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What exactly is the situation you’re dealing with? The question is too general for me to give advice.

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Depends. What your specific situation?

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