Next time I have a meeting my Senior Manager, I may just snap and tell him that instead of constant nitpicking and giving hurtful, blunt feedback, how about acknowledging sometimes for a change?

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hurtful, blunt feedback about his hurtful, blunt managing style...I like it

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Yep been there...I asked her out of all the things she nit picked was there at least 1 thing I did well. She got the hint.

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