How much are you guys tipping your vendors ? I’m realizing I have to factor this into my budget 😭😭😭 and how much would you tip your wedding planner ?! ?

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I haven't considered that either. Crap!!! Would it be wrong to not tip? My wedding is only 30 people. Maybe 35.

I agree it’s already so expensive it’s like I have to put away a couple thousand just to tip 😒

…what happens if you just don’t tip? You’re already paying a super premium price they’ve set themselves for the services they’re providing, to which you’ve mutually, contractually agreed. It’s not as though they’re servers who are paid less than minimum wage and have to top up with tips in order to live (another issue for another thread). And presumably you will never encounter these vendors again, so there isn’t anything self-serving in giving a tip on top of a premium price…

European here so maybe I just don’t get it.

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