I am ditching my player lifestyle and I'm ready for something serious with an ambitious, attractive, and feminine woman

26M in NYC working in finance

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2 weeks later..back on Tinder


Lol. Good luck!

Give it some time😂

Wishing you luck!

What made you stop wanting to be a player OP ?

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