Single women, how do you prefer to meet men during these precarious times? Dating apps can be a slog. Any female fish here want to meet up for a drink? 33/M/recent transplant from NYC. Send me a DM!

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Off topic but my wife and I (33/36) are moving from NYC soon too - any recommendations on where to move? We lived in Park Slope for most of our time here. Any comparable neighborhoods in CLT?

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