Guys, When you match/accept requests/ start talking to a girl and go MIA is it becoz you have multiple options? Would the world be not better if you just said yes or no and close the convo instead of

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... keeping the threads open? Seriously, I feel I am investing too much of time and heart in ppl that are not even serious.

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Same here OP

Sadly this happens with both genders. I have experienced the same with women. My 2 cents - consider it as a good thing. You can know when to move on.

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If someone goes MIA for a long time, it’s usually because they don’t really like you but they want to keep your option open so they don’t say yes or no. It’s sad but true. People make time and effort to message someone they like.

The same applies to ladies i guess

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