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Things will never go back to the way they were. So don’t go into it thinking that after some amount of time, it’ll be back to normal.
But it’s a good thing. Life is better with kids.
There’s no one thing that works for schedules. Some people stay up later, others get up earlier.
There is one universal. Write down everything. If you do not, you will not remember.
I won’t lie: it’s tough if you’re a first-time parent. Now on our second child, we treat time with our kids like important meetings. Time is blocked off on our calendars for morning or bed time routines, school events, etc. We over-communicate about obligations, and manage and guard our time carefully. I work early or late at least a couple times a week to keep up. We are lucky enough to have an excellent nanny and we’re not sure how we could do it without her. The most important thing though is probably to manage expectations and, to the extent you have flexibility, to make sure you work with people that understand what having a family is like.
Yes, agree with all this advice. Also lucky to have an excellent nanny, and then we have an hour with our baby in the morning before work, and we carve out 5:30-8 every day for family time, dinner, and baby’s bedtime before logging back in to work. Blocking off that time has been huge.
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Calendar time to do things. You don’t have the luxury of throwing extra hours at a problem, so you need to be ninja efficient
In a similar boat for a second baby. We’re getting an au pair to help with mornings (breakfast, getting dressed, drop offs) and pick ups (cooking, dinner).
BL life w/o au pair was hardly feasible with one kid and flex RTO so I don’t want to risk it with 2 kids and 4 day/week RTO (we live in suburbs).
All of this is appreciated! Also curious about actually getting back to work. Would this involve emailing folks a week or so before I return? Scheduling time to get work assigned back, etc,
This is the way^