I caught myself laughing at a coworker’s bad joke in a meeting last week and thought, “wow, this isn’t even me.” Sometimes it feels like I’ve built a whole alternate version of myself just to survive in corporate. Do you ever feel like you’re acting at work instead of being yourself?

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Speaking as someone who became too pure and is now looking for a job, do not beat yourself up about this. We are social animals and need to get along with co-workers. What were you supposed to do, say 'was that a joke' and stare at the co-worker dead pan?

Grow and live a good life. Do not get too idealistic, it is nothing more than escapism.

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“Being yourself” is overrated new age garbage. Try to be a better version of yourself than who are. Is going along with a joke to make someone feel less awkward or accepted “not being yourself”?

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Be yourself, otherwise you will become the person you don't want to be.

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Check your soul at the door.

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Go watch Severance on AppleTV.

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I'd say that you should find humor where you can. You don't have to change your whole personality. If anything, it shows that you can put yourself in someone else's shoes.

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The number one reason I can’t go back into that box.

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