I don't take any substances or smoke marijuana. I'm not tempted to smoke pot but I'm wondering if it'll be a deal breaker in future relationships with people who smoke occasionally, or if i'll even be compatible with them. Thoughts?

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Smoking is a dealbreaker for me- marijuana/ vape/ nicotine

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Should not be a problem at all, as long as you are ok with the person doing it occasionally

Is this really a dealbreaker for people in this day and age? As long as you’re doing it in moderation I don’t think anyone should care.

Yes it's indeed a deal breaker for many of us.

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How are we supposed to know? This is your call, so make your decision based on the circumstances.

Are you male or female?

The questions are: can you tolerate being around it?
if No, What is it you can't tolerate about it?
If yes, are you willing to meet them in the middle and just ask them to not do it around you?
Now, what's the habit like for them> are they simply a user (can function w/ or w/o it) or an abuser> spending majority of the time looking for it, waiting for it, letting it become a priority over responsibilities?

It’s a habit that u can take on later in life and it’s not healthy btw, I think u shouldn’t be okay with that since you yourself don’t do it sooooooo please don’t allow it or find someone else who doesn’t

This is absolutely an issue for some folks. Some people would never want the father/mother of their children smoking, drinking, gambling, or using drugs. Especially if they’ve seen the negative affects in the lives of their loved ones and don’t want to create that environment for their own household.

If you don't mind the smoke nearby or around you then you'll be OK with a women who does. She'll more than likely respect the fact you don't smoke and keep it away from you as much as possible. We smokers find ways to be less foggy lol

I don't think.so as long as it's known who is this jw i can't c anyone's name or who they r so it sucks

I see it as a deal breaker. Cigarettes are one thing but the other? Well. From past experiences. I'd like to find a man who doesn't.

2 corinthians 7:1 says " let US cleanse ourselves of every defilement of flesh and spirit," and smoking whatever is a defilement of your body and others around you.

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