I have been meeting this girl for matrimony for almost 9-10 times now, we hit it off pretty well - we event spent a couple of entire days together -morning to evening, just working together and talking. We would text each other 2-3 times a day at least. Now she went on 2 dates with some other guy and hasn’t even messaged me once. Is it weird? Am I wrong in thinking whatever she and I had is over?

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Sorry man

It’s over

People just like chasing new things - I bet you she will go through these cycles 7 to 10 times and then be sick and tired of it

Also how did you know she went on dates

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That sucks. I’m sorry. Why did she go on a date when she was talking to you already? And how did you get to know?

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Sorry dude, seems like it’s over. If not you better end it.

I think it’s over,
But you can just ask her clearly once, about what are her feelings towards you. So that it will also give you clarity rather than just assuming something

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