I feel like the lesbians that I’ve been matching with don’t have real jobs. Why is it so hard to find a professional? Anyone here up for a date in the NYC area? Prefer femmes

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Probably largely the result of systemic oppression?—I.e., no easy answer. I’ve seen studies in the past few years that show lesbians/queer women are one of the poorest demographics in the country 😔. Of course, most of the queer women I know identify as socialists, so may also be a matter of them choosing work that reflects their values, but their political persuasion strikes me as a chicken or the egg sort of question.

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Femme here 🙋🏻‍♀️ not based in NYC but there often enough

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Alrite, hit me up then ;)

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Nyc here 😏

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