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Upfront is the best way
Please be upfront.
I wouldn’t detail that in the dating app if you’re a guy, even if girls are open to something casual, it can come off as sleazy and rub us the wrong way — leading to a left swipe. Just be transparent that you’re not looking for something serious on the second date. If you’re a girl on the other hand, then I’m sure guys are all for that sort of thing on a dating app.
You haven’t invested all that much after one date... things are still casual, so yeah I’d expect someone to be cool with that. A lot of people date casually, so you’re making a lot of assumptions if you’re already looking for something longer term after 1-2 dates.
I think it’s better to be upfront so people know just how much emotion to invest. Also, I find that when this happens, both parties are more organic in their mannerisms + conversations.