How do you know if you’re attractive?

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I have found that the stud finder I bought at Home Quarters works well

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This is some dad joke 😂

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If babies stare and/or smile at you, you're probably aesthetically pleasing.

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SD1 Bald people are attractive too!

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Your mom tells you. Simple

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A4 gets it

If you have to ask, you aren’t

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You apologize right now, LC1 !! (With strict mom voice)

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Everyone is attractive to someone! Ultimately you only have to find just one person that thinks so!

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Attraction is subjective, so you'll never be attractive to everyone, but probably also will always have someone that finds you attractive. But if you want to know what the majority thinks, post a picture and find out 👍

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I judge it based on the amount of free things I receive; which to be fair is quite a bit.

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Damn how’d you know that’s the only reason I got a Costco card??

Let me see a pic. I’ll help.

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Because both men and women want me. My dating apps have a high match rate. 10/10

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Aww how cute! That's what I like to hear. Good for you 😊

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wen u can skipp personality days at de gym
u r officialy...attractive af

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I just had a stroke reading this

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If you get double takes.

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If you are a guy, go to a bar, do a “how you doing” in Joey voice with 10 random ladies that you think are attractive. See how many responds positively or negatively.
Number of positive responses is your attractive score.

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I don’t know. I just don’t care. I do the best to take care of myself, I dress well, and I have a positive attitude.

If people are attracted to me, cool. If they aren’t, idc.

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So your *looks* are above average and people want to hook up with you, nice. Now how about your personallity? What’s your longest relationship?

When you know, you know.

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I look at myself in the mirror

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To clarify, I’m not wondering if I’m attractive. I’m just posing the question to see what people’s own experiences are. Does society treat you a certain way, etc…

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Yes. Lots of unwanted attention. If you are, you know.

People generally are nicer to you and more helpful for no reason. They actively try to make eye contact. Will compliment you or ask you out. Experiences with your same gender can be mixed.

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When random people or friends ask me if I model or want to model for them. That’s when I knew.

Also a big tell for me was when women (I’m a woman) would randomly tell me I was pretty in public. Most women wouldn’t do that unless you’re REALLY attractive.

The model one was the biggest tell for me though.

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No SA1 keep doing it. Compliments from women mean 10x more from men but it’s rare.

I did notice that it’s easier for women to compliment women that they don’t actually think are conventionally attractive because they assume they need to be lifted up in some way. Conventionally attractive women probably don’t receive as many compliments from other women because of possible intimidation or assuming they don’t need to hear it.

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🥲🧐

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