I work for a small firm which is holding off on acquiring a large piece of business until we have an attorney that is admitted in a neighboring state. I’ve been in the process of getting admitted in that state for a while, which I started way before I knew about this potential business. The thing is, I’m actively looking to leave the firm, but I can’t tell anyone that. Any advice on how to navigate this? I’m feeling incredibly guilty but I know I have to do what is right for me.

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I don’t have much advice beyond don’t feel guilty. It’s your life and your career and you don’t owe your current firm anything.

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I get it, I am looking for other opportunities, but my boss has been talking on and off about possibly selling his practice to me. Best advice is to do what is best for you. Don’t let the guilt keep you somewhere that is no longer a good fit.

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I agree with aa1. You're not required to disclose to this firm that you're trying to get admitted there. You're also not required to stay. Why feel guilty?

Valid point. No offer yet.

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