If you’re being totally honest, do you think there’s inherent discrimination in biglaw for people who aren’t good looking? I don’t really see biglaw partners being overweight or not very well put together

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There’s inherent discrimination in life. It’s part of life.

Sincerely,
An overweight, bald dude

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I think people who are put together tend to be more favored, but not necessarily based on the looks. I disagree with the statement that there ain’t many overweighted partners…

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There are definitely many overweight biglaw partners. Also, a lot of them look verrry old for their ages.

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I think most of them got fat as they got rich, they didn’t start fat and old

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Of course. I’m obese. I may be the fattest attorney in my 500-lawyer office. I always wonder how much more successful I’d be if I was in shape.

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People trust people more if they think they’re disciplined enough to keep themselves in shape / put together.

I have to admit I fall into that same bucket—if you can’t even keep yourself together, why should I trust you on my behalf?

Not saying you have to be shredded (nor naturally good looking), but not being obese and being generally presentable are not a super high bar.

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Totally agree. Most biglaw people are not conventionally attractive, but they are in relatively good shape.

100% yes - there is a “professional/corporate” image and you will go further if you meet its expectations. If you’re too far afield, like super obese, it’s almost impossible.

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"I don’t really see biglaw partners being overweight" .....where do you work??

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