I'm around two years out of undergrad now and just don't feel like I am satisfied with life the way that I used to be.

I started off in consulting and was fortunate enough to be able to pivot to a PM role after one year. By any traditional measure, I would think that I am doing pretty well but the fact that I keep needing to tell myself to be happy is a sign that I am not.

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Life after undergrad is an adjustment and you grow out of things much faster because you get to enjoy them less. Stay committed to your hobbies and find things you enjoy doing them and let those be the reasons why you wake up everyday and not because you have to be at a job at 9 am.

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Last sentence is a great perspective

I grew up middle class and never wanted for necessities but definitely was not able to splurge growing up. I was pretty driven throughout college to create a better life and by that measure I succeeded. Once I started working and was able to buy these things that I thought would make me happy, it didn't last that long.

Now that that novelty has gone away, I feel that I am missing that drive that I used to have and generally am just much less happy and feel trapped. I feel that one of the things that kept me going before was hope for the future but I don't feel this anymore.

Idk if this is the right place, but anyone feel similar?

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Are you me???

You shall attain enlightenment when you get your PMP
- LinkedIn

For real though: a lot of people are in the same boat as you. There's no "one way" to find happiness or "put life into perspective", but I personally think it's about changing your status quo, starting off small.

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You need to look for happiness outside of work which includes relationships with people like a spouse or mentoring others. Find ways to give back and volunteer in your free time. Try to focus on helping others and serving your community which will reward you in so many ways unimaginable!

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Do you have a real passion that you think about every day? If not you’ll just end up working another random job w less pay

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Go watch fight club and report back

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I am in the same boat, close to my 2 years of work exp and my career growth just seems so directionless. Just keep get continuously staffed in fire situations on the tech I have no knowledge or got traning on, just for the sake of staffing. My passion is working as a PM, no one encourages or really ever helps in showing the way within the firm. Have been feeling stressed day in day out last 4 months applying for PM roles. :(

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If you’re looking for happiness at a job, you’re looking in the wrong places. Do what you’re good at, to get the money to do what you love. In other words, get a hobby mate.

2 years out of undergrad as well. Switched from industry to consulting for a 70% comp bump in March…but now the feeling from that “win” has worn off and I’m stuck in a stressful job with lifestyle creep. Off topic but how did you get a PM role with 1 YOE?

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