Is anyone else here a recovering workaholic? I’ve been working on my workaholism in therapy for 2+ years and have made great strides. After my kids were born I left private practice doing M&A to go in house at a cushy corporate job working 9-5. It’s so much better for WLB but I sometimes have to remind myself that I don’t need to work late anymore and set the boundary with myself. Even still I’ll feel guilty for logging off at 5. Can anyone relate?

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Yep. After losing my pregnancy that I had been trying for over five years, I had to adjust my priorities. Came out of the depression with a IDGAF attitude. Still in the same role with the same firm (they’re great), but work is not my life anymore. I work late if I need to but don’t stress over taking time off to take care of life too.

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