Is everyone looking to get married?
I recently moved to NYC (10months) and have found that every man I start dating is looking for something very serious. I'm open from the start that I am not after marriage or monogamy right now and some of them try it my way but ultimately I have to end it because I know I'm not what they're looking for.
I'm shocked. This is NY! I expected people to be more loose and carefree. Does anyone else feel this way or am I just attracting husband-material?

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Are you sure they are not just lying to you? We all know why a lot of men will say this…


Lol men lie?!?! Who knew?!?! 😳

Date older men


Already am. They want kids.

That has not been my experience dating men in NYC. How long are you trying to date people and not be monogamous and how soon are you having these convos? I think situationships generally run their course after a few months because one party will want something more/different.


M here and I often hear this from many women. But I also hear the Opposite. Who knows

Right? I hear so many women in other places complain about men never wanting anything serious and here I am drowning in it.

M here marriage is the goal. I think there is many flavors when it comes to guys. I’ve encountered women who want the same but the chemistry is not there.

Wait you m or f

Let’s chat

I’m down for some fun 😀♥️

I think there’s plenty of folks out there on both sides of that coin and you can definitely find what you’re looking for. Nothing wrong with attracting husband material (take it as a compliment!) but also lots of men out there looking for the same things you are. Where’d you move from?

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