I've been given the offer to move to another state for a better job and much better pay. But as I'm nearing having to take the final decision, I'm feeling crippled. I think I'm going to make a big mistake leaving behind what keeps me alive and happy... my family and friends. I think a lot of us underestimate the value of the community and family that you've built up. Am I being foolish for caring about this more than a better opportunity in my career?

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Trust your gut instinct. I've always had itchy feet and have lived in 17 different cities across four different countries. I am in my late 30s now and I'm lonely as hell. My advice is to prioritize staying with your people unless you are someone like me with the insatiable urge to uproot on a regular basis.

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I moved from Philly to Portland OR for significantly more money when I was younger. That was before wife and kids. I would be a lot more hesitant now.

I'd stay back too tbh, I've realised all we have in the end are family and friends. Work is just how we make money, but the reason we live or what humans most enjoy are security, connection and love, No well paying job can promise that.

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