Have you ever felt uncomfortable treating a patient? I don't feel unsafe, and the patient isn't making me uncomfortable physically or anything, I am just seriously disturbed by the discussions we're having about what they're going through. I've been working at this hospital 4 years and this is the first time this has ever happened. Is it wrong to consider asking for a transfer?

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Yes. Before I worked at a hospital I worked in a private office and had a client who was struggling with something extremely disturbing to me. I pushed through it, and I'm glad I did. The client eventually had some really great breakthroughs and I kind of pushed myself out of my comfort zone.

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There will always be a sense of uncomforting feeling when treating patients. It's just normal. You've been there for 4 years and you are able to pull it off. Maybe what you need is a break. Take some time to relax rather than ask for a transfer. What difference does it make? Your job is still centered on treating patients. Deep breaths and you'll be okay.

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I would process that a bit with your supervisor or a trusted colleague. It’s not wrong to ask for a transfer, but it may be an opportunity for growth if you can work through it.

Yes I have. Sometimes I had to take a short walk outside to reset after our sessions. You will know if you need to do a referral by listening to yourself. Sounds like you’re close…have you gotten supervision on the client?

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