I’ve been working at my job for nearly a year now and it feels like the longer I do, more and more goes to shit. Me and about one to two others are the only ones that really step up at work, and all of the extra things (even stuff we can barely have the time to do, along with our regular routes) are thrown onto us, and it’s driving me insane. I’ve already struggled for more than half of my life with mental health issues and I’m chronically ill as well (type one diabetes). Any advice?

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Do you job, your route, and nothing more. It is not your responsibility to make sure the company gets their workload done, that is their responsibility. The supervisors. It would not hurt nor kill a supervisor or boss to get off their butt and makes those extra. You cannot help their laziness. You should do your job, clock out and go home. Stop weighing yourself down with the companies burdens. Those are not your burdens. Please stop feeling responsible for everyone else. You were not meant to do that. and let the chips fall where they may.
Most jobs do NOT give a rats behind about the employees. Everyone is replaceable even those NOT doing their work.
GUARD YOUR PEACE AT ALL COST.

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