I’ve built a reputation as the reliable one. I'm dependable, steady, always the person who can “make it happen.” And honestly, that used to feel good. But now I’m noticing the downside: they load me up because they know I won’t drop the ball, while others skate by with lighter workloads. It’s like competence becomes a trap. I want to protect my boundaries without tanking my reputation. How do you break out of being the good soldier without being penalized for it?

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Great to be in your position honestly. But you could try slowing the load by scheduling a vacation. Our group is pretty good about giving you a break if you do and communicate it well and that might help with distribution the work load. And then don’t volunteer for new matters/assignments, at least for a bit.

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How did you not figure this out already during your high school group projects

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Ngl this reads like ChatGPT

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What gives you that impression?

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I also “suffer” from the same thing but it’s a good thing to be honest- your billables are solid and won’t need to be complained about to any higher up. You’ll probably need to take time for yourself, maybe doing work late nights so you can take a Friday afternoon for yourself

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I'm feeling the same way, OP.

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