Junior here, how do you deal with the periods where you’d rather die (yes i know that’s hyperbolic for those of you prickly, unhappy folk in here) than go to work? glad i get to work for this amount of money but i genuinely hate where i work

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Lateral, change practice areas or go in house. Might also consider taking a long vacation

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If you mean this literally, please take short term disability leave. It’s often fully paid and will allow you to job search.

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I learned late in the game that your life is your own. Even at the associate level, there are people at top firms that value balance — and hard, quality work. Yea, you can have both, but until you find the right people to work with and who are likeminded, you will continue to face this challenge. One metric I use is this - if someone ever brags about their insane hours, avoid them at all costs. Even if they’re personable.

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