Looking to send a cease and desist letter on behalf of a family member to his ex-girlfriend that has been harassing and threatening to slander him to his colleagues and friends. She has started reaching out to his friends on social media and will likely start reaching out to his business colleagues soon. This is in CA. Has anyone had success with a cease and desist in a similar situation?

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Make sure you run conflicts before you do anything.

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Is she really going to take a cease and desist letter well? If not, why bother?

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No but i got a dvro for five years (same accusations).

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My dvro allegations against my ex were mostly pics and phone convo. Judge didnt believe me. Said i was a liar and calculative. On the other hand, he had two lawyers and three witnesses against me. I represented myself. So just bury the court with witnesses and exhibits to legitimize your case. It’s all such BS though- completely discretionary to judge. I didnt appear credible enough. Judge wants to report me to the bar. It’s insane.

Yes. Super easy to get here. Just print off the messages and it will be permanent RO easily

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Please. The point is that anyone can make shit up and get RO.

Isn’t truth a complete defense to defamation?

Do you know what slander means

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