My client is a bully and treats me badly. He forces me to work till late by giving unrealistic timelines. Sometimes I end up working 18 hrs a day. From past 6 months, I haven't taken a proper vacation and now when I decided to take a 3 day leave during Thanksgiving, he questioned that. I'll take the leave anyway but all this impacts my mental health. I can't quit due to visa issues. Any tips to handle a bully?

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Bullies must be confronted directly and support from management is key. Time for a talk with your manager about the toll this client is taking on your health. Lay out the parameters you’re able to meet and then, with management backing, schedule a call with the client to discuss the pattern that has developed and how it must change if you are going to continue working together. Offer him the ability to go elsewhere of the parameters do not meet his expectations.

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Speak to your leadership about this and then examine the contract. If the contract allows, start billing actual hours - this is a tool for resetting expectations. Best of luck.

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Be direct, stand up to him.. maybe he’ll respect it. As a bully myself I would.

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Stand up to them, tell them you’re out of office. Give them real deadlines, I’ve fired clients like this.

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Get support from your management team and stand up to them. Something to keep in mind is that your firm can always dump them as a client, and you have the power to paint them in a bad light throughout the industry.

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Call the police. I seriously don't want to hear how this ends on the news. Like, protect yourself really.

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