My met a guy recently through matrimonial website that my mom shortlisted. The guy seemed good to talk to , but there where no sparks, is it common to feel like that

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Yup, sometimes it even takes a couple of times to figure out if there is a spark. Keep trying!

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He’s a guy, not a welding torch

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Yeah! I’m talking to this guy for 3 months (started during the initial weeks of Covid lockdown), and there’s 0 sparks. Hoping that it’s because we never met in person so far

True! But we all want that right?!? 🤷🏾‍♀️

I’m currently talking to a girl...haven’t really felt a spark but then I wonder if that’s even realistic? I mean half of the marriages out there that had a spark end up in divorce anyway right? 🤷🏽‍♂️

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