Currently in a committed relationship and just came to the realization that I have actually never been single in my life. Sometimes I wonder what the single life is like.. just dating and doing whatever I want without having to think about a partner. Any one else ever felt like this? Or been in this situation?

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The grass is not always greener

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But sometimes it is

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I def the opposite and I’m not so much a fan. Some ppl enjoy the freedom but I’ve had so much of it, in so many aspects of my life, it gets lonely. Being latched to someone or a community you mutually love can fill your life with a sense of belonging. I don’t think the single life is meant for a lifetime

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^SC1 👏🏽 accurate.

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Personally, I find it incredibly liberating being on my own. I’ll always prefer to be single over being in a poor relationship that doesn’t feel right. Being in a healthy & loving relationship is obviously the best scenario though.

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Exactly, I enjoy my own company and feel free/liberated when I do stuff by myself.. so just curious at times to say “what if” I was actually single

So you’re a serial monogamist? Is there a reason you always try to be in a relationship?

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@ P1, me too

Yes. Married since 18 to high school gf.

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Same here been with wife since 19 in mid 40's now. There few times I think I missed some experiences but mostly feel I have been lucky when I see how many friends lives have turned out.

Op that’s tough. I have friends who were serial monogamists. Only ever in a relationship while I sowed my wild oats. I thought they were sad losers but as I grew up I understood that different people have different structural and emotional requirements. Celebrate yourself for being you, not comparing to others who have a litany of meaningless sexual encounters. We all wonder ‘what if’ but don’t let that rule your outlook

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I think the "meaningless" judgment isn't fair but appreciate the rest of your sentiment

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I was exclusively single till my late 30’s. It can be lonely as hell.

Just how life unfolded. I’m now partnered and really appreciate the built in person to share dinner, a concert and an outing.

The single life can really emphasize the impact of your friend circle. If you have a strong friend circle, it can be nice. If you don’t, it can be a challenge.

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