One of my friends was not returning my money. He borrowed 80K from me 2 years ago and promised to return it in 3 months. He didn't return it and kept silent. I also didn't ask him and gave him time without saying anything.
Unfortunately, my family went through some medical emergency after 6-7 months, so I started requesting him to return my money. He kept on asking for 1-2 weeks time again and again but didn't return anything. Then totally stopped responding to my calls and messages.
Continued

Have to take short term leave due to current health condition, can I claim short term disability benefits while on H1b visa? Thanks in advance for any info.

Best divorce lawyer in NYC?

Does anyone have feedback or recommendations on robo cleaners in India? Thinking is sending one to family. With lockdown mom getting tired of cleaning by herself.

How to overcome a breakup. I'm heartbroken 😭

Anyone here want to be a friend can ping me..

For the single 🏳️‍🌈 fishes: how’ve you managed to stay sane/healthy/happyish throughout this whole thing? The monotony and loneliness is hitting me especially hard during the holidays.

Pakistani people-born and bought up in Pakistan. Anyone married to an Indian muslim girl or guy?
How different were cultures?
How did your folks and extended family react?

I want to give a Christmas gift to the manager of the gym I go to. She’s awesome and I just really appreciate her. I can’t think of any ideas though! Can anybody think any good ones? I do not know much about her personal life except that she’s a single mother.

Two of our students were killed today in a shooting, another two are in the hospital. Last week a student was killed in a different shooting. Admin barely acknowledged. How do we help our kids?

Any book recommendations for grieving the death of an estranged parent?

How do you deal with a spouse who spends inordinate amount of money on family back home. Usually don’t mind, but of-late has been excessive and our family seems to be a second thought.

When, or if you set time aside to take care of yourself or do something for yourself, what do you do? I'm realizing I don't really have any "healthy" ways of relaxing outside of work, so drop whatever you got. It's starting to affect my personal life and I'm worried I won't be able to have healthy relationships unless I can take care of myself first.

My SO adds very little to our relationship. She has a dead end job. I cook. I work. I oversee finances. I plan trips. She doesn’t have a voice in the relationship. I’ve asked her to give her perspective but she always defaults to mine bc she thinks I’m smarter/worldly. She feels intimated by me and my social circle. Lately, I’ve found myself thinking for her. Anticipating her wants and needs and then adjusting my behavior to meet them. Which she appreciates but it’s frustrating 29M 27F

Just discovering RSD after being diagnosed as an adult. I feel like SO MUCH of my life has been impacted by this and I just never had a name for it. At work if someone gives me negative or constructive feedback it can feel like a punch in the chest even if I know it's not personal. Makes romantic relationships so hard too. What do you do to handle it especially at work?

How does everyone make friends in the city? I have maybe 10-12 friends in the city (just roommates and friends from college), but no real “group” to go to. Spend most of my time with my girlfriend

Hello - wise 🐠 of the north! Did anyone come here as a dependent with their spouse on study permit or vice-versa?

How open are mental health discussions in your families? Whether it be talking about your struggles or suggesting therapy to family members? Anyone done it successfully and mind sharing ideas here?

My anxiety has been relatively constant during this whole wfh covid situation so I haven’t been wanting to be intimate with my partner as often. They said its bringing down their mood, any advice?

I’m sick of the word ‘digital’. This is such fluffy BS.

Any success stories with EB5? Who did you use? How were the investment terms? Been on H1b 9 years now and no end in sight with eb2 wait. Concerned with risk of outright fraud not 500k investment amnt.

Hello Everyone , I am new to UK and looking for a Backend Developer Job in NodeJs/AWS , currently on dependent visa.

I don't have the DM feature yet, Please refer me or let me know if any requirements. TIA ! Cheers!

Taking a mandatory "Audit Quality and Our Tax Provision Work" when I don't do any tax provision work. Nice waste of my time KPMG. Idiots.

I feel like so much of my job is planning and scheduling that I have 0% left to plan and schedule my personal life. Is that normal? Do I need a Microsoft to do list for normal life 😣

This is an emotional dump rn. It may be lack of social interaction but I'm really frustrated lately. I feel like I lost last 2.5 years of my life with ongoing lockdowns and job instability in the first half of the pandemic. I was 28 turing 31. I get good dates but -ve self talk
Inflation is high & coming from a low income family where you're supposed to help your parents is driving me nuts. Although I make a good salary, after rent, car insurance, there isn't much left (unfav currency exchange)

For in-house counsel roles, does firm prestige matter? For example, would the fact that an applicant is from Sullivan & Cromwell vs, say, White & Case matter at all, or is it much more about experience/interview? Does it matter as much as law school credentials? Assuming a mid-level corporate associate seeking to go in-house.

What are M7 MBB recruiting timelines ? Considering applying right now to MBB, but if I get rejected I’m going to do an MBA, will I be blacklisted from applying for summer internships if I get rejected this fall ?

Anyone else fee like old town is a super young crowd now?

I’m 28M and I used to think it was a place for ppl in there mid-late 20s. Last few times I’ve been out there I feel like half the ppl barely look 21?

Can somebody please refer me for Microsoft Germany? I’ll contact you with further details :) TIA

Can NY RNs apply for compact license if they want to work in NJ?

Hi folks! If I quit this week, will I still get my bonus? (My LWD will be around September 26-27)

How transparent is your firm about your H1B application? Do you get your application receipt number? I’ve worked really hard to get this job and made a lot of life changing decisions and worried about losing all this just because my application isn’t picked in lottery🥺🙁.

Anyone have experience in bringing over a blood relatives children as a dependent into usa? If so, which visa ? And what’s the process to follow

H1B lottery results are out! Let’s update each other here! I’m not sure how much time BAL takes to inform the selected applicants!

I am currently in the OPT grace period (about 15 days left) and was notified that I was selected in the second h1b lottery. I have no idea how this works. I don’t think my company can file by the end of the grace period. Does that mean I have to leave the country and return October 1? What other info do I need to know?

Option 1: margin loan based on brokerage account assets, Option 2: home equity loan on a paid off property. Looking to use the cheap debt to DCA invest in the market over the next few months. Have reasonable risk appetite, thoughts on one vs another?

Hey all, new to this bowl. Currently a Tech Recruiter and eventually want to make the transition into a HRBP or HR Generalist role. Would love to hear from anyone who started in recruiting then transitioned into another area of HR. Have been thinking of either working on PHR certification or MBA with focus in HR mgt. Thanks!

For those who switched from consulting to mid market PE, how do you like it?

How can I try to get into VC? Particularly tough tech and things like robotics, automation, transportation, etc. I’m currently at T2 consulting in industrials and I’ve tried networking with a few VC firms in this space, but no luck.

Hi fishes anyone with SAP FI background? Need guidance ✌

Hello, On behalf on someone,

Holding offers
TCS 14LPA includes V.P.
Capgemini 15LPA fixed
Cognizant 16.6 LPA (16 fixed) 1.5L bonus
Mahindra Comviva 20 LPA (Product based)

Current is 8 LPA with 4.5 YOE....should I counter best with TCS or Capgemini or Cognizant or opt Comviva.?

NEED referral at CGI. I HAVE THE job id

Seeking suggestions for learning Alteryx from scratch

Which should I join?

Deloitte USI : 15 fixed + 0-10% Variable + 50K joining bonus
Nagarro : 15.5 fixed + 70k Variable + 1lakh Joining bonus

Role - UI Developer

How is hike and bonus in BNY India

Hi Fishes,
I got my Tata Consultancy offer letter 9.50 LPA two months ago, with that I put down my papers in CTS, now the problem is I got two good Offers Uplers - 14 LPA and Larsen & Toubro Infotech -13 LPA
can i ask TCS to match this offer, if so how can i ask them?
My joining date is 19Sep

Y.O.E -3.6 Yrs
TECH-STACK: react js , frond end developer

I just want suggestion from everyone..
I have dropped my paper in current organization and have been offered from IBM now the problem is I have been retained in my current organization by giving the same amount which has been offered to me and I had accepted the offer letter from IBM as well before as I was not sure that I will be retained here.
Now can I tell IBM that I will not be able to join your organization as I got retained, will there be any problem as I had accepted the offer.

TCS is offering 20 lakh for 12 YOE(Java/J2ee,Springboot..) . This is my first switch. Current CTC is 13.2 . Is it good package or it can be done better?

I am holding an offer from capgemini for 15.5 fixed + 50K JB-Consultant
I got an offer from wipro 18.5 lakhs(17 Fixed and 1.5 Variable) + 50K JB-SSE

Which one should i choose and if it is Capgemini How much should i ask as counter.? I am willing to have No Variable component as a part of my CTC

YOE-5 Years

I am with 15 years experience in same company with 18lpa.
- 7 years of exp in project management and it's delivery.
- Recent 3 years experience as product manager.
Now I am actively looking for a company switch. But not able to find great opportunity for product manager comparatively for a project delivery roles as project manager or account manager.

So I am reaching to the community to know if I can still stick to my aspiring product manager or use the mass availability of delivery management

How's HCL to work with from RPA perspective. As Business Analyst to be particular or Sol designer

Hello fishes,
I'm thinking of getting certification in the top cloud service provider.
My current role is .Net full stack, with no cloud exposure, Building Batch applications for exporting data over the mail. (On weekly basis)

A little guidance which one to choose:
1. Azure
2. AWS

NOTE: BEGINNER WITH BASIC CLOUD COMPUTING SKILLS

Hi fishes,

Will TCS HR asks for existing offer letter??
Is it ok to share with them,
Hoping it won't create problems...

Hi Fishes,

I wanted to know the scene of onsite opportunities in Shell.

I'm a developer with 3 YOE, will they send people like me abroad ?