How to overcome a breakup. I'm heartbroken 😭

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Cry for a few days. Get food delivered. Put on your comfort tv show. Deep clean your house. Maybe some therapy. Spend time with friends as much as possible. Adopt a cat. Time & distractions & being selfish doing whatever makes you feel better.

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I have been there, it’s a difficult feeling but trust me TIME HEALS EVERYTHING. Give some time, feel free to DM if you need to vent or just someone to talk to. I have been there and know how it feels. Loads of love, hope and strength to you. You will heal 🫶

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Not knowing the reason of your breakup or who initiated it… pls know you d never be happy w someone who doesn’t want you as badly (if not more) than you want them. Value your self respect…. Dealing w the same and it’s been 6 months and I am still healing and stiff think about em every day.

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Write a letter to your future self who is in a better place telling them how proud you are they made it through despite how hard it was and how much happier you’ll be!!
This helped me a ton and was actually so empowering to read back ☺️

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Write down the why it didn’t work out. When you see there are more cons than pros you will feel better. We all are deserving of love and it will take time but you WILL get through it.

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Sorry to hear that. Cry it out. And then eat some ice cream. Take care of yourself. This will pass I promise! Been there

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Going through it too..2 months in and it’s still tough. You’ve got this 💕 cry when you need to cry. Say yes to any and all plans. Stay busy!

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Go to the gym, reinvest in yourself.

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Listen to Steve Lacy

Listen to "Like Me" especially the last segment, you're welcome.

Same boat, am not okay lol.

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