Since nobody is perfect, what attributes would you say you traded off when getting together with your long(or longest) term partner over exes? Eg anything from income, position, rest of family to looks, height etc. And what did you value more in that partner, eg job stability, agreeableness, etc?

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Prioritized kindness, temperament, emotional stability, agreeableness (personality match), integrity.
Deprioritized income, position, appearance.

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temperament is now table stakes for me ha sounds like you’re in a peaceful good spot nowadays

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Of course attraction was strong
The ability to talk through a situation as an adult.
Brings out the best in me not the worst
Allows me space
Motivated to work :)
Allows me and pushes for me to grow and try
Loves dogs! 🦮

Prioritized the fact he is kind, considerate, passionate about his work, had the same long-term goals and is dependable and responsible.
Deprioritized his income and the fact he comes from a poor family (as do I).

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