This guy that I met online a few months ago lives in a different city. We have met a few times to date and definitely have a connection. He suddenly seems very distant and has not texted or called...

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Dude thinks he's hot shit for saying "sleep well" when you express concern. He's a fucking loser don't worry about him. There's a reason he's alone at 37...

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It's not you OP and it's okay to cry. These were real emotions with a real person. You're human. Let them tears out and remember you're a strong independent badass woman ❤️❤️❤️

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Nope, as much cliche as it may sound. It's not you, it's him. Don't overthink it. Maybe he was just not that into you and that's ok. Dodged a bullet. Plenty of 🐠 in the sea. F

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Move on ...it's ok ..happens almost to everyone

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I know it's just stupid to be crying over this. But I can't seem to stop analyzing everything I said or did in the last few weeks. I just need to get it together.

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Is he not answering your texts or calls, or just not initiating with pervious gusto?

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Congrats - You being ghosted ...I guess it could happened to women as well

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A1 that just makes me sad. Like we are both old enough to be able to treat each other with some decency.

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Well, honestly, long distance rarely(LDR) works unless there's deep history or like the "love on the first sight" kinda thing. Plus, at his age, he would have to be real real crazy into you to maintain a LDR.

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I can help you take your mind off him 😘

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Married?

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Boy baiiiii

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E1 he was really into me or so I thought. I texted him asking what's wrong and why he is behaving so strange on Sunday night...his only response was "sleep well".

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Be happy you see his true character soon in the game

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Ha I guess I asked for that K1.

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Its ok. I did too. Cranberry juice helps get over ghosting issues 😝

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In 4 days. Was very cute when I texted on Sunday. I am guessing this is done? He is a 37 year old man, shouldn't he have the balls to say it to my face? Ugh just so disappointed.

Bit cute...curt*

*long distance relationship

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