This is for my WOC in govt.

My office is pretty balanced; We have 5 women and 4 men, but I'm the only POC in my office.

My colleagues are great and don't treat me differently, but I'm finding it incredibly difficult to relate to them, which is impacting my ability to build relationships w them.

I feel like my jokes aren't landing and I'm not getting cultural references. Does anyone else feel this way?

Any advice and/or book recommendations on WOC in white working spaces would be appreciated!

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