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It’s annoying. But I think the issue is less “straight people at the gay bar” and more “disrespectful and obnoxious straight people at the gay bar.”
I’ve had fun with straight people at the gay bar who are respectful of the space they’re in, don’t take up the energy of the room or make themselves the center of attention, don’t treat lgbtqia+ people and drag queens like monkeys in a zoo to be ogled at, and don’t overtly try to hit on people like they would at a straight bar.
It’s when the straights do those things that it becomes an issue.
Pro
Yes, stay out of our space.
Pro
Blame it on the people trying to normalize drag queens, it’s a mainstream item now.
It’s not our fault that straight bar are not safe spaces for girl groups of women. Make straight men behave and stay in your spaces 🤣
Pro
I’m over it. We’re already seeing the straight women bring their boyfriends along. Soon we won’t have any safe spaces left to be ourselves.
Went to a lesbian bar that I had always felt comfy in years ago. I sat at the bar(used to be Francine's),ordered my drink and tried to bring on feelings of nostalgia and was rudely interrupted by a bi-sexual man trying to grind on me while he was dancing. I was grossed out and went down the street a little to the gay bar(The Pendulum)a few doors away. Definitely had a better time. So,there are a lot of party crashers. Ugh