To the high income girlies, how do you approach dating knowing you might make more than a lot of guys?

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Don’t date men that make less money than you

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Yep, problem solved. Stick to men in your age, income, social class bracket and you can avoid allot of problems

My husband is a super dope stay at home dad and I love our setup. Depends what you are looking for.

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Especially the black male ago! Lots complain to other women! I know because my ex is still complaining about the one he married. Described her as masculine! I blocked him!

Dating isn’t all about income. It’s more about lifestyle compatibility and a similar approach to finances for me. I’ve never dated someone in a tax bracket below me, but it’s mainly because of lifestyles.

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Sis, there is plenty of evidence that gives you insights into ignoring hypergamy and male pride…and also the fact that bw are the only women who are groomed to date and marry down.

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I agree, D1. Growing up seeing those stereotypes was always weird to me because my dad was a high income earner and my mother stayed at home. I’ve never felt aligned with the concept of struggle love or a ride or die. I’m all about my soft life and my relationship being a safe space for growth.

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I approach dating by becoming real friendly with my vibrator until I find someone who makes more

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I date interracially! Quick fix! Other races make six figures by 25! I'm 40 plus so most are VP or Tech Entrepreneurs or work at FAANG. I'm also in NYC live in midtown. Lots everywhere.

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Same. Lots of issues never rear their ugly head that way

Honestly get over it lol find value in who he is as a person and don’t date someone lazy. Some people don’t make “that kind of money” right now but have the potential to eventually. Be reasonable about it though. My husband makes 150k and I make like 300k in a good year. Me personally, I can’t penalize him for that. Potentially, one year down the road, the tables will be turned 🤷🏾‍♀️

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If you’re in the right dating pools (this could mean you might even have to move cities), they are there - 😔 and when it comes to ethnicity, you will have to keep an open mind.

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From my experience i would base my dating off the persons character….. I’ve dated guys who are on the same level as me income wise and they were bigger losers than the ones who made way less 🤣🤣🤣🤣

However, if income is important to you then you’d have to question if you want to date black men or are you open to other ethnicities.

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The answer depends on how much you make. What’s your TC?

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185 and I’m 27.

I’m not really looking to date rn but I’m hoping my income continues to grow at the same rate as I age and assume/hope in my 30s I’d be a high income earner so I was just curious how other women have found dating to be when they are at such a level.

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