Ughhh….confession……I caught my spouse entertaining other females, so I acted upset, all the while I was enjoying the company of my ex….. I want to come clean, but then I lose my leverage, my spouse has some insecurities about us and my past relationship, so I cant even confirm his true indiscretions, but I want to sleep with my ex one last time….he was my first everything, I miss just laughing with him, he is my true best friend……y’all help me

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Post in the confession bowel, they’ll give you advice as well. Some will be rude, so just you’re aware.

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Please say you and your spouse are just dating, not married 🤯

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I would NEVER confess that I was entertaining an ex…you should also probably stop doing that ish

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Do you even want the relationship you are in? Have you discussed any of this with a therapist? Both options (the ex and the current partner) sound unhealthy.
Current partner -doesn’t respect the relationship enough and may not be faithful.
Prior partner -is an ex for a reason.

What do you really want?

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I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Seems like there are some things in your marriage that need to be fixed. You're seeking comfort with your ex and now your husband is trying to fill some space with other women. I think there's a fundamental need not being met on both sides that absolutely needs to be solved so you guys can move forward. The ex seems like a good idea because you don't NEED him for anything except a few giggles and texts and possibly and good time in bed but you probably already know you don't want him at all so I don't think you should do that. If anything but yourself a new toy and fantasize about whatever you want. Good luck sis.

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🫂💙💙

Now this is a confession!

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Oh honey I know this feeling...try to resist!! The ex is an ex for a reason and you have to ask yourself what does it benefit you?

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