Anyone else struggling to make meaningful friendships in b school? It’s only been two weeks but I’m struggling to go beyond superficial talk with anyone

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Standard early on. Be patient. It'll happen. Everyone finding their feet.

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I made good friends throughout Y1, but most of my closest friends I met in Y2 of business school. You’re super early in- don’t fret

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I always have the problem of moving beyond artificial smalltalk… I honestly have now idea how you form deeper connections :(

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What school?

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Yup I can totally relate! I’m at Kellogg, dm if you are too haha

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