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God this post makes me sad. Please be yourself.
A3- there’s nothing wrong with changing. There’s something wrong with changing for the sake of people.
Being yourself! No need to change up for others views. Besides everyone's views of "good" are different. I guess my definition of "good" is someone who's good at heart and wouldn't do anything deceptive or sneaky lol
Also have full belief that Allah swt has your back and paired you with someone who’s the right match for you.
Why are people so averse to changing. Why is everyone convinced who they currently are, is their best form. I applaud OP for looking for room to improve.
With that said do it for Allah and the rest will follow
OP, f the guy that makes you have to change yourself to attract him. Be yourself, babe. 😘❤️
Side note- I really do feel what you’re saying because there are definitely times where I feel like I have to possess certain qualities to attract the right someone or change my appearance. But honestly, I have too much appreciation for myself to change the core of my being for someone else whether it be appearance, tone, religious and political beliefs (f the boys who aren’t down for feminism), social understanding, everything, etc. Even when I was getting to know people via dating sites, I made sure that I didn’t overthink responses and said it like it is because masking things will not help you in the long run. And you don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t love you for you. PS - I don’t know/do this alone. My girl friends are the freaking best and our support system puts all of us in check with our worth.