What books have helped you navigate through a mostly older white male work environment ?

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These are phenomenal books that I highly recommend.

Leadership Presence "...Will enable you to develop the skills necessary to inspire confidence, command respect, build credibility, and motivate others..."

Writing that Works "...will help you say what you need to say, with less difficulty and more confidence..."

Confidence is the key to navigating through a world of those unapproachable and stuck in their ways individuals. Communication skills such as "Saying more with less" and practicing techniques around your leadership presence go so far. It takes practice and constant conscientious self correction to stand out in any role in any industry.

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