How do you build rapport with your colleagues?

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make em laugh
- wit u, not at u
- make sure u do it verbaly tho, no tickling
- wen dey go off on long monologues bout how incredible der Kidz r, respond like u just watched Jordans nba hall of fame speech wit awwwwww

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Funny spelling aside, that's the key. Pretend like you care about their kids/pets/etc. I let my manager ramble about his kids and dog for 30 minutes each meeting but he likes me more than my coworker who doesn't engage in small talk.

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Asking them sincerely about their life and day. Be sincere is the key. Go move beyond small talk

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Talking.
Activities.
Food.
Drinks.

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Having lunch with them both at office hours or if you all feel comfortable, share a meal during your off time. If you approach them with genuine interest, it'll be hard not to build some rapport. Take cultural differences into account and send them some greetings for festivals or celebrations in their culture that you may not be used to celebrate (e.g., I send my Indian friends my good wishes for Diwali). Read about those festivities and ask them questions about them. Ask them about their favorite meals, restaurants, movies, TV series, their hobbies, etc. As humans, we enjoy talking about ourselves and the things we like.

Sincerity and following through on commitments.

I do not. Let’s give each other some peace.

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