What do the bees🐝 on a Grinder profile mean? Asking for a friend who is recently back on the single boy scene.

Hi can anyone suggest good pgs for men near deloitte Hyderabad.

Do guys like when you act disinterested? I swear the only time a guy is into me is when I don’t reciprocate any interest and am aloof. Whenever I like a guy and try and be friendly and show interest (and I don’t think I go overboard. I just like try and have a quick texting convo a day) they act like im a stalker and stop talking to me

Any chance of meeting smo serious on Tinder? I know it's mostly a hookup site, but have you met any exceptions?

F Miami, 26 let’s talk 😉

Recently divorced after 10+ yrs (40M, Denver)... Starting to figure out dating again. What age difference is it too cringe to try to date?... 10 yrs younger ok? If you're low 30'sF us a 40M in play?

Let’s start by posting age, location gender (a selfie if you want!) I’m 30/M from nyc looking for something more serious these days in terms of dating..

Lately people keep asking me why am I not in a relationship. It's not that I don't want to be in a relationship. Ive been single for years and used to it I guess. I'm not a fan of apps (tinder, bumble etc) Another thing that keeps me in my bubble is that I don't truly "love" myself. I've always heard that you're supposed to love yourself before any one else can love you. So again maybe it's my fault I'm still single. So my question is do I remain single or step out of my comfort zone?

What is the best way to attract a new mate? I got out of a 7 year relationship (he was cheating on me for half of it) and I’m so confused on where to even start. I have a therapist and working on my trust issues - but I have self confidence issues. I’ve been burned for being ‘unattractive’. But I’ve seen girls that are objectively more unattractive than me have mates. So it must be a confidence issue? Those girls seem to glow while I am so sad. Or it’s the guys I go on dates with?

It’s an odd fact of pandemic life that you find yourself longing for human contact while wishing for a place where you can be miles from anybody.

Any romantic date ideas in Manhattan for an anniversary? Would also love ideas for nice restaurants with outdoor seating. Thanks!

30 yo gent here... I need to start going on dates with people who travel more ... this going on dates with people in the same city every week has been a big of a struggle. Anyone single!?

Last night I slept over my boyfriend’s apt. We are sexually active together but this time he woke up at 4/5am and started fingering me and eating me out. I was somewhat awake but I don’t know how to feel about this. Thoughts?

So I have been seeing a guy for 4 months. We have a pay disparity.. he earns less than I do (by quite a bit). He has mentioned a few times that he’s worried I’ll get bored of him when I know he can’t afford the same things I can. I think we are beginning to move past this, but now he’s starting to mention things like ‘I am really broke this month’, and last weekend he told me his mum has lost her job and he’ll have to probably pay her rent. I have a lot of sympathy for his situation … tbc

Might jump right in and enroll in very expensive bjj classes today. Any F 🐠 already practicing? Advice/words of encouragement for a newbie?

Any F in the Bay Area wana have some exciting time?

Anyone waiting for the 2nd season of indian matchmaking??

Who’s around tonight for a fun time? M searching for F

Any single girls in Bangalore?

Best part about being single: Not having to hold in my gas ! What is the best part of it for you??

SPAC bubbles are popping everywhere. Premiums being pulled out here pre deals. Becareful out there. None are safe. I will be selling puts in psth if it opens below 28

Has anyone in your company heard the word (cross-connect) or (leased Line) perhaps you have heard this from the network team at your financial institution?

Best pizza in chicago? Deep dish doesn’t count! I’ll go first Piece Brewery & Pizza

DB ECM - does anyone have a view?

Do you think your work in IB makes you better at predicting which public deals that you aren’t involved with, will go through? Like the probability of the TWTR deal going through or KSS or SAVE, etc?

Need some advice: I currently do corp dev and FP&A for a smaller company and just got an offer for about double my salary at a F200 company. The catch is I would no longer be doing corp dev, just FP&A. My goal is eventually to crack into ib, do you think I should take the job and the pay bump or stay at my current role and try to lateral in to ib.

Hi Folks,

Want to get a better picture of pharma consulting in India and how do consulting firms approach clients and what are the kind of projects that we usually get

Happy to chat in DMs

Thanks for the help!

Looking to buy my first condo in Long Island city area. How many properties you typically visit (open houses) before making a decision?
Thanks!

Anyone here successfully convert into a morning / before work runner? I want to start going for runs at 630 because my new job will have me working late but I’m so sluggish when I wake up. Tips would be great.

Is it possible to get your notice period shortened from 3 months.i have 15 carried forwarded annual leaves from last year.

Any folks in this bowl have an Adobe Experience Manager certification? Worthwhile?

How can a media planner break into media consulting?

Hi fishes, help me with this offer. It's an SDE role, 8 YOE. I'm currently at Google with $350-400k TC. This would be a level 5 at Robinhood. Base $210k. Sign-on bonus $45k Equity: $450k-500k. Thanks!

I'm genuinely sorry to hear abt the layoffs at AirBnB and my heart goes out to your coworkers who are affected. How can a company approach restructuring in a way that is ethical?

Do guys like when you act disinterested? I swear the only time a guy is into me is when I don’t reciprocate any interest and am aloof. Whenever I like a guy and try and be friendly and show interest (and I don’t think I go overboard. I just like try and have a quick texting convo a day) they act like im a stalker and stop talking to me

How many of you are in an interracial relationship? And what are yours and your partner's ethnicities?Just wanted to do a quick poll :)

30 yo gent here... I need to start going on dates with people who travel more ... this going on dates with people in the same city every week has been a big of a struggle. Anyone single!?

Best lesbian bars in nyc?

I know this is very stereotypical to ask here, but did anyone watch the latest episode of White Lotus? DM me! My friends are watching it tomorrow and I need to get my thoughts out!!!!!

My anxiety is through the roof for the 2024 USA presidential election. I’m so scared that DeSantis or Trump will win and we will lose all rights as transgender people. Someone please comfort me.

Are poppers bad? Are they frying our brains? Post your thots below

There’s this guy at work I really like. We’re really really good friends but I’ve caught feels since the day I met him and I just want to tell him how I feel but I don’t want to ruin our great friendship. He’s the closest friend I have.

My manager (unknowingly) messaged me on Grindr. What should I do now?

Holidays can be tough for our community - I hope everyone is able to find some moments of self-care and happiness today!

Was hanging out with a friend in town. We met on Bumble but he just wanted to be friends. He has dated several guys since we met and we continue to hangout as friends (cont)

Liking one senior member on the team (who’s been my mentor) & I have started overthinking about this super genius man & I feel less confident when he’s around. This is impacting my work :(

Happy Pride everyone

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

Does anyone have experience or advice on being a stepdad? My bf has a 6 year old (whom I adore) and I want to be as good a stepdad as I can be without overstepping any boundaries. Any advice is welcome!

Only recently started being out/comfortable being bi, but overcoming a lot of self stigma. Others seem so secure in the LGBT world already, it leaves me terrified how/where to begin. Help?

Well 😒 accidentally gave up my rose on hinge to the wrong dude. Was saving it for “the one.” Now this guy keeps texting me. He seems okay - I figure I should prob at least do a coffee date. (Or, Maybe a make out session and some heavy petting in the corner at starbucks? Is that still a thing for first coffee dates?) Will also wear the cologne im buying this weekend! I don’t know how long it takes for my rose to grow back on the app.

Who’s in Dallas at ACT?? I missed the networking time and want to grab drinks

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(