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I wish this were all you needed, but sadly, it’s not the case. A good sense of humor, thick skin (to fend off the sexism and micro aggressions), worldliness (specifically economy and sports, so that you’re relatable), and a presentable face/body (hate to admit that last one, but it’s true).
Unfortunately I agree with Manager 1 on this. You really do have to be thick skinned in our industry to survive some of the side comments that are made. And there really is so much m ore to it than just being smart and doing your job. It would bea easier if that was all there was to it. \
I was an advisor for almost 30 years.
I never experienced any sexism or comments over my entire career.
I did my work, worked harder than anyone who was in my first year class and continued that work ethic for my entire career.
I faced far more sexism in my previous media career than I did in finance.
Stubbornness is the quality that has helped me the most. There’s a lot of people giving “career advice” that are projecting their experience and their perception of you. Take “mentor” advice as a grain of salt and nothing more, esp when most mentors are going to be men. I’ve had so many instances of getting passed for jobs I was qualified for, told to take opportunities that were not in my best interests, and asked trivial questions about my qualifications during job interviews. Stop seeking validation, say no way more than you say yes, and keep your eyes on the prize. Good people will recognize your talents, but those are few, many people will not.
Willingness to learn new things, seeing other people's perspective and being flexible while still assertive
Adaptability and persistence.
As long as you have the right environment and mindset, anything is possible.