What are some things you can do when you feel like you aren’t fitting in with your team?

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I'm a firm believer in fellowship with food. Bring a snack or invite them to lunch. Sometimes that little gesture makes a big difference.

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Try to get a feel of what your team members are into and find a common ground.
Also, try to understand the managerial or co-working style and find a way to fit in.

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