Anyone know how to deal with a very cold and distant superior? I'm starting to feel a little ostracized and devalued by my manger.. Should this be something that I should be worrying about?

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This happened to me right before my manager stabbed me in the back. Get out now. You’ll thank yourself later.

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This may sound a little trivial, but my manager frequently checks in with other members of team aside from myself, will not respond to emails unless deemed necessary (I know that managers can be busy, but principle), will actively ignore me or will otherwise seem very bothered by my presence or any question I may ask.. the list goes on really. It all just makes me feel really uneasy and uncomfortable.

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That’s hard. My technique was always to kill them with an amazing work ethic (first) and then kindness (second). Could be that they are just getting to know you.

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My managers doing the saaaaame thing! I’ve only been here 3 months but I’m looking for a way out. It sucks

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same. i’m interviewing because of it.

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If you’re able to, try working on a project with another manager. You’ll be able to build value with others and may even change the other managers impression in the process

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Can you give a little more detail about the behaviors which are cold and distant?

@Zenith 1 lol typical for Zenith. Get out asap

Tell her/him

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