What were your go-to flirt moves before marriage? Divorced friend is trying to get back out there

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Asking for a friend…suuuuure 😂

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I think that actually a lot of women would like to be approached (respectfully) in public these days. Nobody talks to each other in public, and if someone asked for my number at a coffee shop or a store or something, I'd be beyond flattered. If you're looking for something clever to say, I say don't worry, just smile and say hey I'd like to know if you'd want to chat and get a coffee sometime? Simple is better

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Agreed. In addition... It's easier to ask for her Instagram than her phone

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I was so awkward lol. But as a female I didn’t really need to lead the flirting which was good because I lack game hahahaha! If I liked a guy I would “tease” him, in a fun way that made him laugh… it always worked well for me.

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Haha same. I’m so awkward, I just tried to find guys who found it endearing 😂

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Pee-Wee’s Big Adventure.

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A smile and eye contact will do a great deal. Depending on the setting, you may even get away without knowing their name lol
Plus, not being afraid of rejections - they will happen and they don't matter.
Divorced fish here :)

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pass a note asking if they like u

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Back to elementary school??

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It's really simple.
Approach and talk.
Men are overly anxious thinking about hypothetical situation.
Stay composed and ask her out
If it works out good, or move on.
Don't get carried away about rejection and lastly...


The most desirable ones are least approached !
Take your chance and talk calmly

I tried and I had my share of rejections and made some friends too..
Flings too 😉

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Friend is a woman trying to flirt with men :)

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