What's the toughest decision you have taken?

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The toughest decision is to take a step back and restructure your team in a way that makes sense for the current needs and the business and not being caught in the historical job description and past roles

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If this was your toughest decision ever…you’re a lucky person!

To pack up myself, my baby, our dogs, and whatever I could pack in a car and leave my abusive ex. Thinking about it was one thing, but deciding to do then actually doing it…deforest the toughest and scariest thing I’ve done.

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M2 it was indeed the best decision I ever made. That was 5 years ago and we are thriving now. It doesn’t even feel like I’m the same person who lived through all that. So grateful.

EY1 yep. People often comment on how calm and collected I am at work even in the midst of intense times. It’s because work could never ever come close to the hell I’ve lived through outside of work.

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Left everything behind to move to a new country. I had only ever left my province once, so I had no idea how much of a shock it would be to move across the pond. I absolutely loved it though. It was a life changing experience in all the best ways.

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Not to shoot myself dead in the toughest moment of my life (so far).

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