Why does getting let go feel like dying? I was so angry earlier at having gotten the news about being let go after 2 years and now it feels like I’m being crushed from the inside out.

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This was me last week. It feels like you can’t breathe. I promise you that it gets better. Let me know if you want to talk and commiserate

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Hang in there OP, DM me if you want to chat

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