Why does getting let go feel like dying? I was so angry earlier at having gotten the news about being let go after 2 years and now it feels like I’m being crushed from the inside out.

Waiting to hear from an in house job and received another offer from a firm - it seems highly likely that the in house job will give an offer but would it be acceptable to reach out and inform them of this pending offer to gauge their timeline? I don’t want to keep the firm waiting or let the offer lapse.

Anyone in this bowl did the CAMS exam? If so, is this an exam that can be passed without AML experience?

I came from China, you know why I came here? Because I hate being told they do things for my protection. Stocks there halt for the rest of the trading day if it moves more than 10%, because everything else must be too much risk for us little people to handle.

Have a first interview for an associate solution architect role next week. Should be a technical interview, as i saw the interviewer is another solution architect. Any tips on how I should prepare for this?

Is 23lpa is okay for SDET profile in Cornerstone on demand or should i try for other company.

Yoe - 8
CTC - 14.5 lpa

What do you use Python for at work?

What is the best MBB office for each of the following cities: Dallas, Atlanta, Houston and Austin? Please also specify why.

What is a typical salary range for a product management analyst in the Greater Seattle Area?

Hi Guys,

I have been asked to register for National Skills Register by Nasscom at the new company. Is it mandatory to register ? If yes, what is this used for ? Please advice

Thanks for your help in advance!

What do you actually want out of your career in Big Law? What's your end goal for your career and for your impact on the field?

Jp Morgan is hiring for multiple positions
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Location Mumbai &. Bangalore
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Does your firm get Juneteenth as a paid day off? Please state your firm and yes or no. Protiviti- no.

I'm not happy with my job. Don't get paid enough but I don't think I've the skills needed to even start looking for a new job. What skills should I start to learn that will help me get a better pay?

Can anyone please explain the different sums of insurance provided EY for its employees? I am going join in 3 weeks. So wants to details about EY's insurance policies.

Curious what Big4 accounting advisory Manager 2 compensation looks like in MCOL cities?

How much in compensation should a senior analyst (3 yrs experience) in the office of the ceo at a telecommunications + media conglomerate make?

Is there a Short Term Disability leave for Anxiety or Mental Health?

Does any feel like they suppress their own positive thoughts? Like there’s a very positive development in my life that I am happy about but every time I think of how great it is, there’s a voice that tells me to stop and curb my excitement- for the fear that I will somehow jinx it or that something bad may happen. I can’t just be happy without it being accompanied by worry that I might lose something in return. Can anyone relate?

Advice needed: seeing a psychiatrist first time to assess if I need short term medical leave to deal with anxiety. How did you guys start the conversation with your psychiatrist? What’s the degree of depression that requires medical leave or medicine? Don’t want to make a fuss if my problem is “normal” but neither want to overlook it. I had panic attack before flying back from a case that I thought I was dying...

I'm "funemployed" right now as I wrapped up my last job on Friday and my new job starts August 1st. This is the first time since college that my fight or flight hasn't had a strangle hold on me

Been depressed most of my life. Found a report card from kindergarten where I got “satisfactory” on everything except for concept of self. Got not satisfactory on that.

In the last 5 years I’ve become disabled. The one girl I was finally able to have sex with ended up giving me a bacterial infection that triggered an autoimmune disease. We broke up and now I’m alone with my broken body, just waiting for my elderly parents to pass away so I can kill myself.

Thanks for reading.

I have been recommended Cipralex 10 mg daily by my therapist. Has anyone tried it? Just wanted to know if it helps. Extremely hesitant about getting on meds

Thoughts on anxiety medications? I struggle with anxiety and low confidence and hoping they help. How is it going on them (or off them)?

Anyone come across someone so happy and your first emotion is jealousy? Blows my mind that some people are just happy and satisfied in life.

Any one have a hard time dealing with conflict? And shut down or feel like your spiraling? I’m finding myself in this situation and I try working out, eating healthyish, sleeping early, reading, shopping, but nothing feels stable.

Just gave myself the anti-pep talk. “You are worthless. You are going to be alone forever. No one is going to love you back.” I feel so sad that this is what My life come to.

Always struggled w depression somewhat and go through low days where it’s hard to get out of bed. Usually spaced out though. But COVID has made this worse. Been very unable to put in consistent work. I live w my fiancé and he just told me he’s been thinking hard how to proceed w the relationship because he is brought low also by these struggles of mine and doesn’t want a partner who struggles w this (lazy wo willpower - paraphrasing). I don’t know what to do. He’s mentioned these things (cont)

Just diagnosed with bipolar ii. Have had a hunch but the actual diagnosis does scare me a bit. For those who have it, how do you manage? trying to be more intentional and would love any advice.

My anxiety and low self esteem have been bad. So bad I’m starting to second guess myself, talk fast during meetings, procrastinating and getting sidetracked easily. Even my memory has been bad. This is now creeping into my work and making anxious thoughts worse. There are emails I should’ve sent since Monday and I didn’t. I’ve been people pleasing.Saying I’ll do what people want to hear, nd falling short.I’m also a manager and I can feel my inability to lead.I’ll look into medicine. Just a vent

Trust. I had three situations in the last 24 hours where things did not work out as they should or I was given wrong information. These situations were small and are definitely first world issues.

But it underlined for me how important trust is and how I feel so alone not having anyone there I know 100% I can trust them.

Everything around me is I have the fight a little or a lot for the actual truth. And that saddens me

How do you realize you’re stressed? How do you recognize the feeling of stress? How would you describe it?

Sometimes I don’t consciously recognize it, but when I’m truly stressed I start getting headaches that goes on for months.

Feeling like shit today. Totally in need of some magic right now. 💔

I still f-up things that I have been doing for years due to anxiety. Simple things like introducing myself. I have to present but don’t want the attention probably, so I ramble through things quickly

This bowl has the best ppl. I received a lot of support here. But when post in other bowls asking question, ppl attack me personally, i feel sad. My depression triggered by aggressive assholes (con’t)

I have missed all the milestones of adulthood like marriage, kids, buying a house, and it’s hard to make those happen at this age. My career is behind and I have high anxiety around aging poor. Wtd?