Why is it anytime you hear a term like “3rd wave feminism” bandied about negatively like the Critical Race Theory boogeyman it’s from some bro incel who thinks society changed for the worst because people tweeted something they disagree with? Feels like the white patriarchy is going to burn everything down before relenting.

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I think the irony, as evidenced by this post, is that everyone throws around terms (incel, femcel, misogynistic etc ) these days without proper context and definition just because of something they disagree with.

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In context, just for you, you may be more of an incel apologist or ally than an actual one. Triggered all the same.

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Idk probably the people you are choosing to engage with.

I don’t often see people denigrating feminism, but I do see people frequently use feminism as a veil (or defense) for poorly-constructed moralistic viewpoints.

Third wave is ill-defined but generally encapsulates a lot of the “women can do whatever they want” mentality. The common fault I see argued is inferring those choices are above criticism or reproach from people who hold different values.

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Lol what did I just read 😂

Why? Cowardice.

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Because the average person doesn't give enough of a sh*t about feminism to distinguish third wave from first and second.

So if someone mentions it they've looked into it enough to have a strong opinion, making them more probable to be a blue hair or an incel.

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Well.. that’s how it started 😊😇

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