I stretched my limits being a demisexual in a way this weekend and literally talked myself out of sex! #WordBurn

What exactly counts as ghosting . ?
You go on a date spend quality time , you have some intimate moments and the next thing the guy does is unmatch you on the app without sending a text.
Does this count as ghosting ?
Is expecting a text from other person saying " this is not what he is looking for " is too much to ask ?
This kind of behaviour puts other person on the self doubt mode.

Any females for weekend casual meet ?

Do you set up any standards when you date with anybody? I’m currently dating with a Mexican man. He is older than me 10 years old (I thought 6 when we first met). His job is construction and made less than me. He is insecure about the money but I’m not really. But, the one bothering me is that he is illegal immigrant. Other than that, He is a cure, nice and independent guy. When dating, he split money/ or want to cover for me. He cares about people around. I am happy but not sure about LT.

Anyone in search of dating / LTR?

I’m 26, 5’10” (prefer same height or taller), Libra, live in Manhattan, have a dog, drink socially, socially active but not a working out kind of person/super fit (dad bod), full time professional, live alone, have goals, ambivert, side ↘️

Feel free to HMU. 😊

Got a date with a girl I've admired for a while this weekend, where should I take her? Best romantic/fun date spots, ideally with great food or near great food. She has no dietary restrictions as far as I know. Thanks

Has anyone tried any paid dating apps? (Match, eHarmony, paid features on Hinge etc.) and is it worth it?

So, this is a little awkward, but I recently moved to SD for a fresh start, and honestly, I love this city. My problem is I have been more of a homebody since I moved here and I'm a little intimidated to go out and meet people because I don't feel like I fit in here. I am overweight and this city is full of active, and attractive people. I guess I am wondering what my experience would be if I got out more? I feel like people look at me when I'm in public because I stand out due to my size.

What is the difference between fetish and kink? I thought they were same.

Any singles here?

Any women here who have dated both men/women/NB, will to chat to me? i'm currently dating a woman and i'm so confused about something TMI to ask anyone in real life, also I'm not out to many. TIA 💛

Do you think a teacher dating/marrying another teacher is an ideal situation?

I just moved to the city. Any dating do’s and don’ts? I’m not American and not sure if there are cultural things I should avoid

Anyone know a good date option for 1st date - I’m in north county but taking out a girl who doesn’t drink on Friday night , so I don’t want to pressure her with a bar setting.

A question to all the men in here, what are your age criteria for dating/serious relationships? Is it true that 30+ females have it much harder than females in their 20ties?

How do you fellow workaholics find time for dating?

28F, Indian, decent looking, moderately religious, partial hijabi, NYC looking for a broad minded and easy going guy. Why is this so hard??

So was talking to this girl (we’re both mid late twenties) i met thru mutual friends and we hung out a few times/ texted a lot. I eventually had to move cross country and we slowly started texting less frequently & at a certain point she kinda ghosted me (lol I didnt pick up the signals). Recently found out I’m going to be going back to the same city in 6mo and theres a good chance I’ll run into her consistently since mutual friend groups/events. I dont want it to be awkward everytime…advice?

Anyone here read nothing by Janne Teller? Just finished it and it's messing me up lol

What were some effective tips or resources that helped you to learn the systems of your first firm? We feel like our firm admin/paralegal is not getting acclimated and not assisting the firm as we hoped. So we want to make sure we’re effectively training her and providing the best resources/tools for success.

Newton, India’s nomination to the Oscars. Finally a very very sensible pick. Brilliant movie!

I’ve been a family caregiver for four years, and now look to return to the workforce. I realize that this will be a bit difficult, especially during these economic conditions, plus other factors, such as being an older employee, etc. I updated my account with a few job sites, adding on the fact that I took time off to care for a family member. I would appreciate some advice, anything that would be helpful.

Hello,

I am looking for a job change. I have 6 years of SAP security experience and my expertise are in SAP S4-FIORI implementation, SAP ARIBA, C4C and somewhat SAP BI too.
Can anyone refer me in their company ?

If one moves to Federal practice from "regular" consulting, what does one need to know???

Other then acting, can I hear a story about getting into the business because of what you know not who?

Writing annual goals. What are examples of how to write “quantifiable” goals as a consultant? Are you measuring number of relationships built, projects, or something else?

Most of consulting is advising on solutions to problems, but I don’t control the outcome, whether the advice is implemented, or the budget. Sales is easy (e.g. “sell $2M of products/services this year”) because there is a clearly defined measurement. What can consultants measure?

Hello All,
Small help please. What is expected salary range for principal consultant (BA role) ?
How much can I expect on top of 25L fix pay? Also what principal consultant role is equivalent of in general terms ?

Looking for a structural and/or civil engineer in the greater Phoenix area looking to make extra income on the side. Projects are typically smaller in nature, but there can be a lot of them. We schedule around your availability.

Hi Fishes,

I received an offer (28 Lakhs + 3.9 Lakhs incentive) from Novartis for Sr Project Manager yesterday. This was just 13.6% more than my current earnings as Project Manager. I've given the reasons why I deserve at least 30% to HR. In response to that, HR has sent 2nd offer i.e. 29 Lakhs + 4 Lakhs incentive + 50k sign-on bonus. The 2nd offer is just 18.2% higher than my current earnings. Need your suggestion, if I could still negotiate with HR to finalize deal by asking for 25% hike?

How much $ do FT mid-level creatives make in Amsterdam?

How is the GSAP tech allowance taxed? Bonus or income?

It blows my mind how some people have no problem with trillions of dollars in corporate welfare, but mention canceling student loan debt and everyone screams like it’s the apocalypse.

Hi! How do one get from admin assistant role into an executive assistant role? Thank you for all your responses!

I work in industry and was notified that my employer is laying off people in 3 months. In order to get my bonus I have to stay until then. Do I wait 1-2 months before I start applying to other jobs or start now?

The sound of people yawning loudly gets on my nerves

Probably the least racy confession on here but I really liked Windows 8 and I'm sad there's nothing like it anymore

Accepted an offer for 150k with another b4 (currently at D) with 4 YOE. I should be happy and jumping with this number but being an 1st gen immigrant, this number is too unreal/scary to me. Growing up I watched my parents struggle working multiple jobs from sunrise to midnight just to make minimum wage for us to have a good life but now it feels weird to be making this much? It feels like a party I shouldn’t be in, but here I am.

What’s the best bowl to find out about the culture at KPMG and PWC?

Going to make the most of my Christmas quarantine by swiping through every living man between the ages of 24-34 on hinge

My gf and I have been dating for almost a year and are thinking of moving in together. From your experience, would you consider that too soon? How long did you and your partner date before living together?

Let’s try a game: put some song lyrics into consulting / corporate speak and we have to try to guess the song. I’ll start:
Young lady, what is your name?
I’d like to converse with you, perhaps purchase you an alcoholic beverage,
I’m T-Pain, you are likely aware of who I am already,
I am signed to Konvict Muzik and Nappy Boy Record labels, ooh wee,
It is my understanding that this establishment closes at 3 AM, what would you say the odds are of you continuing the night with me?

I’m turning 40 this year. While I don’t want a mid life crisis (although getting a bike or sports car again do sound nice…), I do look forward to when I’ll just not give a f*ck. Worrying what others think is incredibly draining.

How do I divide the chores in this case? I’m the breadwinner - husband has been taking time off from work. No kids. Two dogs.

I feel like I do more chores because there are some things that I just can’t stand. Like dishes left in the sink, dirty floor, dirty dogs, laundry…etc. When I ask him to do those chores, he says he will do them later but he takes forever. So I do them instead. He does grocery shopping, yard work, some cooking. Is it unfair if I repeatedly ask him to do more? 😡😡

I want the quarantine dry spell to be over.. 🤨🧟‍♀️

I tried to break up with my SO and instead they talked their way out of it for an hour and we're now on a "break" that involves the same amount of contact as before so not really sure what i accomplished

What’s the most offensive but rated G insult you’ve given?

So I have family situation I've been dealing with and yesterday at a company function outside the office, my supervisor brought it up in front of a bunch of people. First of all highly inappropriate, but also it's nobody's business. She's made comments before outside of work about how her boss is gay, blah blah blah. I'm just at a loss. Should I report it to HR? And if I do, how do I do it without it being known that it came from me??

I just saw someone ask in a different bowl if 2 years in public accounting is equivalent to 4 years in industry. The kool aid is strongggggg.

Her loss 🔥🔥🔥