You know this weirdly makes me feel better. Even Simone Biles has to deal with random people making unwanted comments about her hair - while she becomes the most decorated Olympic gymnast in history. I guess I can deal with these rich white folks asking about my braids for the rest of the summer. Have you ever had someone at work comment on your hair?

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People from all walks of life are inappropriate about hair, clothes, neighborhood you live in….its a human thing I guess

We all have to be skillful at redirecting the conversation with grace and mercy.

Like Jesus said…. Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do.

SMH

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For real. Sometimes it’s black folks making the comments to other black folks 🫣

Op this is exactly how I felt when I saw the post. I was like wow, I can totally relate to that. Its sad that it is 2024 and we are still having to post this on the internet. I just don't understand why our hair is still being brought up. Please just LET IT GO already.

I had a former very close Asian friend always suggest I would look better with my hair in its natural state than when I would wear protective styles. After explaining on 3 separate occasions why, I cut them off.

I wish you had told them that they would look better as a black person

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